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As most divorced adults eventually resume a social life, dating
Stay Together for the Sake of the Children? 
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Affairs are devastating to the trust that is the foundation of your marriage. Once you find that your spouse has had an affair, you must come to grips with it.
Credible Data in Custody and Access Disputes
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Who Started It Doesn’t Necessarily Matter!
Whose Day Is It Today???
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Where to Search for Hidden Assets During Divorce
In some cases, the process is much easier than you think.
Taxing Questions
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Innocent Spouse and the IRS
Even years after your divorce you may regret having signed a joint tax. 

Divorce happens, be prepared Prince Charming Doesn't Live Here Anymore
"Some day, my Prince will come" goes the song. But what if he came – and went -- and took half of everything with him? 

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Divorce Statistics
About one million U.S. marriages are expected to end in divorce in 2001. Here are some other divorce statistics: 
Divorce rate for Americans (1999)  4.1 per 1,000
Lowest Divorce Rate: Massachusetts 2.4 per 1,000
Highest Divorce Rate: Nevada,  9.0 per 1,000
Median Marriage Longevity:  7.2 years
Chances a new marriage will end in divorce: 43%
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  • A Place for the Single Dad

    I’ve discovered something new, an online blog/magazine devoted to single dads. It isn’t the first I’ve read but it is by far the best.

    If you visit SingleDadLife you will find articles written by experts that cover everything from dating and sex to health and fitness.

    Today I’m going to send you their way by sharing a post I believe every single Dad should read.

    No Excuse Not To Be Involved

    Courtesy: SingleDadLife

    Research is unequivocal that few fathers abandon their children voluntarily. Most fatherless children result from fathers being forcibly separated from their children by the court system.

    I’m not going to open that can of worms here. Not yet. It’s too big a can.

    But I will say this: The family court process of determining who should have the right to see the children and when can be a…go on now, get on over and read about the importance of fathers in their children’s lives.



  • What You Need to Know About Restraining Orders

    A Restraining Order is a court order intended to protect you from further harm from someone who has hurt you; to keep the abuser away from you, or to stop harassing you, or keep the abuser from the scene of the violence, which may include your home, place of work, or apartment. It is a civil order and it does not give the abuser a criminal record.

    A victim of domestic violence can obtain a Restraining Order. A victim of domestic abuse means a person protected by the law and shall include any person who has been subjected to domestic abuse by a spouse, or any other person who is a present or former household member and where the victim is 18 years of age or older or who is an emancipated minor. A victim, of any age, who has been subjected to domestic violence by...read more about restraining orders



  • He's History; You're Not...Divorce Advice for the Midlife Woman

    In He’s History; You’re Not: Surviving Divorce After Forty, Erica Manfred shares her own divorce experience as well as the advice of experts, with specific sections tailored to women in their 40s, 50s and 60s. This is what Erica says about her book:

    “I was fifty-eight when my husband announced he was leaving for a younger woman Luckily, I had a girlfriend who had been through a recent divorce-a friend who coached me through the frustrating, frightening process of taking care of myself again.

    Even though divorce is a rite of passage that large numbers of women go through every year, its aftermath is impossible to understand unless you’ve been through it—especially the impact of divorce on older women.

    Alone at fifty-eight, broke, traumatized, depressed, convinced I’d never find a decent job, another man, or another life, made me think about how many other women were in the same boat as me, or an even worse one.

    It also made me think about who women turn to when they get divorced no matter how old they are.  Divorced women, especially if they’re women of a “certain age,” need advice not just from experts but also from someone who's been there, done that.  This book is written for those women who need advice from just that someone."

    He’s History; You’re Not discusses how to:

    Avoid “kiss of death” marriage counselors to determine if reconciliation is possible. Find an affordable divorce lawyer. Survive the first, worst year Deal with your adult or teen kids (who can be just as devastated as small children) Get back to work or find a new career (age discrimination does not have to stop you) Use the Internet to date the Viagra generation Restore your self-esteem despite body parts that have succumbed to gravity Forgive your ex (and yourself) and finally move on.



  • Governor Mark Sanford Spends Father’s Day Weekend With His Mistress

    The leader of the state of South Carolina seems to have his priorities screwed up. Should the residents of South Carolina be wondering whether this man is capable of respecting anyone? How do you put any faith in a married man who will choose to spend Father’s Day with the other woman instead of his own children?

    After being missing in action for 7 days, Governor Mark Sanford admitted to an affair with a “dear, dear friend” from Argentina. He had been in Argentina with his affair partner instead of hiking the Appalachian Trail as earlier reported by his staff.

    Governor Sanford is the head of the Republican Governor’s Association and it has been rumored that he will run for president in 2012. Sanford was first elected Governor of South Carolina in 2002.

    Sanford said he will resign from his post as head of the Republican Governor’s Association but will not resign as Governor. I have a feeling the heat is going to be on for a resignation though. Southern republicans don’t look kindly upon men who engage in affairs, especially those who disregard their children in the process.

    What we have here is another example of a high profile, powerful thinking he is untouchable. This has to be a case of someone feeling his station in life protects him from the consequences of bad behavior.

    How else could he justify his behavior other than to think he is exempt from what most consider right and wrong.

    I will say this…I’ve been in love and longed for the company of the one I loved. I’ve never been so swept up in it that I allowed it to interfere with or damage those who love me or shirked my responsibility to those dependent on me.

    There is something flawed in the character of men like Mark Sanford and the world of politics seems to be a breeding ground for such men lately.

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  • Presumptive Joint Custody…Good or Bad?

    There is a new bill waiting for a decision in the Pennsylvania Legislature. House Bill 463, the Presumptive Joint-Custody law, would automatically give each parent equal custody of their children. It would require parents to submit a parenting plan and give the judge the authority to order counseling for them, but would also leave the door open for appeals by both parents for a different custody arrangement.

    At the present time, Pennsylvania decides most custody cases on a case-by-case basis with a judge deciding custody based on the “best interest of the child.”

    As you can imagine, fathers in Pennsylvania are in favor of House Bill 463 passing and becoming law. “Not everybody is a deadbeat dad,” said Mark Carrol, spokesman for the central Pennsylvania chapter of Fathers4Justice. “I work with a lot of fathers who just want to help raise their children. ... The bottom line is, children need both parents but, for whatever reasons, the courts are biased. Eighty-five percent of the time when dad goes into court asking for more time with his kids, the judge says no.”

    Some have differing opinions. “I don’t disagree that both parents need to get involved in the child’s life, but if those two parents don’t get along that does not bode well for a (50/50) shared-custody arrangement,” she said. “My concern is any type of presumption of joint custody will decimate the best interest of the child standard. I believe starting from that presumption takes away all the discretion of the court and the judge, who is the fact finder and who hears from both sides what is going on and makes the final determination of what is in best interest of the child,” says Mary Burchik, chairwoman of the Lebanon County Bar Association’s Family Law Committee.

    Mark Carrol is right, not every father is a deadbeat dad and there are many fathers out there who want nothing more than to help raise their children. What about those fathers who are deadbeat dads though? Or, even worse, fathers or mothers who are abusive?

    How does a presumptive joint custody law benefit a child in danger of being abused by a parent? House Bill 463 leaves open the option to appeal the custody arrangement but what does the child who is in danger of abuse do while waiting on an appeal.

    I don’t agree with Ms. Burchik’s argument. If divorced parents can’t get along the child suffers no matter what the custody arrangement. For the life of me, I can’t see how a good father spending more time with his child can be more damaging just because he doesn’t get along with his ex.

    Then there is the idea she has that presumptive joint custody will destroy the best interest of the child standard. When children have two loving parents, nothing would serves a child’s interest more than spending equal time with each parent. If left up to judges, as Ms. Burchik suggests nothing will change and I can’t remember the last time I heard from anyone who got a judgment from a judge that actually took into consideration…”the best interest of the child.”

    I’m all for equal/shared custody. I think the damage done to children when parents’ divorce would diminish greatly if both parents played an equal role in children’s lives post divorce. We can’t assume that both parents are good parents though. When that is done there is a danger of children being placed with a parent who will do harm. That is unacceptable!

    We need to find a way to make the playing field equal when it comes to child custody but I don’t think making the presumption that both parents are good parents is the cure for the problem.




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