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By Richard A. Shulman,
Ph.D.
Question:
When is the best time for me to get a divorce? Should I wait for my child to get older so that he can understand why I'm choosing this option?
Answer:
There is no easy answer for this question. You need to be the judge.
Data shows that children who grow up in a hostile, aggressive, conflict filled, and stressful environment may be worse off than children who grow up in a stable divorced or stable single parent home. Regardless of the age of your child, he will have obstacles to overcome.
- Typically, younger children (ages three to six) tend to blame themselves and feel responsible for their parents' divorce.
- Seven to 12 year olds show a decrease in school performance.
- Adolescents typically feel they could have prevented the divorce and are also critical of and feel hurt by their parents.
The good news is that within a few years, 67% of all children adjust well to their new environment.
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