Encourage your children to talk openly about their feelings
Emphasize that the divorce was not their fault
Understand that your children’s behavior may reflect feelings of anger,
fear, confusion, sadness and loss. Validate their feelings, allow them to be
angry with you
Be honest with your children about the finality of divorce according to
what is age appropriate
Keep your children informed about family-life changes such as moving,
visitation, activities, schedules, etc.
Remain consistent with established rules and expectations even if they
are not the same in the other parent’s household.
Make the effort to spend quality time with each child every day.
Commit to protecting your children from being involved in parental
conflict. Agree on co-parenting strategies that benefit the children
Take all necessary steps to ensure a safe and stable home environment
Seek professional help if your children are experiencing unresolved
problems in response to your divorce
Please provide the following information or call us at (877) 347-7658. Consultation limited to Southern California residents or those with cases pending in Southern California.
